Last weekend I had the privilege of attending the annual Men of Valor conference in Kansas City, MO, where leaders from across the nation joined in an ecumenical battle cry against pornography and the sexualization of our culture. The conference drew an audience of over 2,000 men, women, and young adults, and boasted speakers such as Matt Fradd, founder of WhoDoesItHurt.com, Pam Stenzel, founder of Enlighten Communication Inc., Dr. Jerry Kirk, founder of the National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families, Jon Kitna of the NFL, and Philly’s own Mark Houck and Damian Wargo, founders of The King’s Men, among others. Presenters addressed a plethora of topics, most notably exposing the gravity of the problem of pornography in our culture, offering practical advice for individuals, and giving tips for leading groups in the battle for sexual integrity.
The ecumenical nature of the conference explicated the desire and value for unity among Christians against this common enemy, which is the objectification of sexuality. It was inspiring to see how Christian churches within the geographic Archdiocese of Kansas City have been able to dialogue and share resources in the common pursuit of reclaiming the virtue purity. This is more than just a religious battle– the negative effects of pornography and the exploitation of sexuality have been measured from both the sociological and psychological perspectives. It was powerful to witness testimonies of real individuals whose marriages, families, and very livelihoods have been devastated by pornography addictions. As a chastity educator, the testimonies renewed my conviction for the importance of chastity education. The message Generation Life presents has the power to preserve young people from such grave consequences and darkness!
The final evening presented ample opportunity for dialogue over dinner and into the night with many leaders of the conference. I was immensely proud to inform others of Generation Life’s involvement in building a culture of life. I was universally met with affirmation of the importance of our work, and interest in Generation Life’s holistic approach which is rooted in true love and the dignity of the human person. It was refreshing and hopeful to be among so many brave leaders from across the country united in conviction. I witnessed in amazement as the Lord used the brokenness of individuals to lead this battle for sexual integrity and purity. This movement truly provides testament to the awesomeness and omniscience of our merciful God. “But he said to me, ‘my grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness…’” (2 Cor 12:9).